#15 Time Keeps Slipping Us By

The weather was really nice today...a little too nice for my comfort.
It hit the 80s and it was way too hot for me. Too sunny and too hot. Maybe I'm just used to the cool weather.

Yesterday I finally learned how to cook a real dish. Well, I knew how to make french toast, but that's so basic. I learned how to make my own sauce for spaghetti and I'm really proud because it actually tasted great! I made a huge batch of the sauce and it's almost gone ^_^.

Today, my friend came over. We played on his PSP and did some random stuff. It was a nice relaxing hang out. Better than nothing anyways. After he left, my other friend came over with her little sister and her mom. We went to the park and she told me how her parents pulled the big "D" word out (divorce). I guess that's why she called me last week at midnight.
She told me that she told our other friend first and she thought I was gonna be mad because I wasn't the first to know. -____-; I wonder what she sees me as.
Then she told me that they weren't comforting at all. She told me that her mom is always complaining about her father not being home and stuff. She told me that her mother makes her dad sound like a bad guy.
I told my friend that it's normal for her mother to react like that. She seemed confused at first but she understood after I explained it. All I really did was point out the obvious though. Her father is always working and her mother is the housewife. Obviously she wants her husband to spend more time at home with her and the kids and that's love. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be with her husband. But her father is always working late and by the time he gets home, she's already sleeping because she has to wake up early and take the kids to school. They hardly see each other and that's pretty sad.
My friend told me that she sees it now. After that she told me that I was comforting. I rolled my eyes. I wasn't trying to be comforting, I was trying to make her grow up a little...but I didn't tell her that. I think she gets it. I'm just happy that she isn't one of those people who make a huge deal out of petty things. Her mother loves her father way too much to get a divorce, and of course, the kids too. There's no way they'll divorce. Unlike my parents. Haha.

After she told me she understood, I told her about our other friend. The three of us call each other god sisters because we knew each other since we were born. I told my friend how the other girl is still kind of hung over her ex because she keeps saying she hates him. After all, whenever we talk about relationships, our friend always brings her ex up. There's more...but I don't feel like listing it all.
Anyways, my friend was like, "Psych me. Do you think I'm over my ex?"
I didn't want to tell her. So I just veered the topic to a different direction. But obviously, she was still a little hung over. But I think the only reason why was because her other friends would bring that guy up often. If they didn't, she would be over him.

I don't think anyone in the world is ever 100% over their ex(s). There'll always be a small memory of them somewhere. If they're smart enough, people will see that with every break-up, there's a lesson and more growing up to it. :) Well, that's what I think based on what I observe...

Anyways, tomorrow I'm going to my friend's church. I can't believe it. I curse so much and do so much inappropriate things...I wonder how I'll behave at church. I'm not Christian either! Haha. Well, I'll write about my experience tomorrow if I have time. :)

That's it for today! Haha, I wrote a lot!
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